Catechizing the new generations in the 21.st Century became a mission almost impossible, because of the changed ways and styles of communication. Digital immigrants teach digital natives to be able to teach younger digital natives in a post-postmodern era. We need new ways of handing over information, competences to share efficiently the keys of becoming a Christian. My lecture presents a newly adopted Dutch-Hungarian method, where the starting point for teaching/coaching is the psycho-social-cultural level of the young person and the catechizing work targets not only the individuum, but it’s whole social network.